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I like this simple list and it’s in acronym form, easy to remember. It is written by Aisha Al-Hajjar, mother of eight home-schooled children and certified Bradley Method childbirth educator and labor doula.

>>>PARENTHOOD comes with a never-ending “to do” list.  In fact, I could probably keep this Parenting column running indefinitely, just discussing the obligations and duties that come with the job.

But this week I’d like to keep it light.  So I’ve used the word “PARENTHOOD” as an acronym for ten simple tips.

 


P

RAY for your children.

Remembering to pray for your children is probably the most powerful tip of all.  Allah is our sustainer and we should turn to HIM for all things.  Pray for their health, their happiness, their safety, their peace…I could go on indefinitely.  Possibly the most profound is to be thankful in prayer for the privilege of having them.

A

 

CCEPT them for who they are.

Your child is not a mini-you.  They have their own personality, experiences, thoughts, and desires.  You cannot live your own unfulfilled goals and dreams through them.  Value and accept them for who they are and remember, too, that they are growing up in a different era than you.

R

 

AISE them in a loving environment.

Within a loving home there is peace and tranquility.  Stable surroundings make for confident and successful people.  Show your child kindness and love; for a child who is raised with these in the home is less vulnerable to the evils of the street.

E

 

NCOURAGE them.

Each of us has special gifts of skill and talent.  Like us, our children also have their own interests and desires.  Support your child with love and encouragement to fine tune their gifts and follow their dreams.

N

 

OTICE their achievements.

Each day is full of achievements, big and small.  An important step to positive parenting is focusing on the good things your child does along the way.  Parents foster good behaviors by taking notice of them.  In this way, they reinforce what is desirable of the child and that which is undesirable naturally diminishes as they seek your praise.

T

 

EACH them.

Perhaps a parents biggest responsibility is to educate their children.  This includes providing a venue for their academic studies, be it formal school or lessons at home.  But don’t forget to also teach by example.  Some of the best lessons are those of love, mercy, and forgiveness.

H

 

EAR them speak.

Truly stop and listen when your child speaks.  Multitasking may be a great way to get things done, but it doesn’t apply to validating your children’s importance in your life.  When a child feels heard at home, he feels respected, important, and loved.  This can equally apply to your spouse!

O

 

PEN your arms to them.

A child should feel welcomed and loved.  Physical contact is an important aspect of intimate human relations.  Babies and young children are especially in need of physical affection, such as cuddling and hugs.  But don’t discount this need as the child grows.  The amount of physical closeness will naturally wane as they mature, but even a teenager benefits from a parent’s embrace.

O

 

FFER the world to them.

Don’t allow your personal experiences to limit your child.  Many great people have come out of homes of ignorance and poverty.  The future should be wide open for them and they should be offered the opportunity to explore their world and allowed to reach for the sky.

D

 

ISCIPLINE for the future.

Discipline should be aimed at training for the future.  It is not about punishment or scolding.  The ultimate goal should be self-discipline, with which the child can be trusted to make the right decisions for himself.

Each of these tips could be the focus of an entire post.  In fact, some of them have been topics of previous articles in this Parenting column.  Remember that parenting is unique to each child.  There are no templates that can be universally applied to the task.  But these ten tips surely apply to all.


©2011 aisha_alhajjar@yahoo.com, All Rights Reserved 

http://saudilife.net/parenting/23979-ten-tips-of-parenthood

Greetings y’all. I just wanted to make a quick post about Supercharged Science. I am sure I mentioned it before somewhere but i was reminded today because i received an email about a free teleclass today, al hamdulilah.  The teacher is a mom and hold several degrees, with an interesting philosophy completely against “the norm” which, in my opinion, is a good thing! The experiment should be done FIRST and the learning will come through the experiment as well as spark the interest of the child to want to learn more in depth, which she then provides unit studies and sometimes even a whole semester of Science units for free in pdf form.

She gets kids excited about Science and they are able to learn on their own without their parents knowing much about Science and with little preparation. Here is one link: http://www.superchargedscience.com/escience-long1.htm

She also has a few videos posted on youtube, check her out. Kids will love her super paper airplane, enhanced with different folding and rubber band as well as her homemade rocket using JUST an old plastic film canister with lid and a couple of Alka-Seltzer. It is too neat and even gets the parents interested, even though i have always loved Science, I never went far because my Math skills were not high level enough.  So… DO NOT MISS OUT, don’t pass this up.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=endscreen&NR=1&v=8KI83jJuQCI  1.15 minute video TOO COOL easy rocket. Your kids will love this!

Also, she doesn’t sell your email or information to anyone, not only does she state that but as well I have been getting email from her for over a year and no problems and with Allah alone is the protection.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_6uzYmZ4hgs

Assalamou alaikom wa rahmatullah Peace and Mercy to the rightly guided, a quick link to post and inshAllah i will be back to update :) Thank you for your patience, we have been really busy since Dd age 12 now, decided to “quit school” She wanted to homeschool and All praise is due to Allah alone. She said they weren’t mean to her or anything (she is the only hijaabi at her school though there are many Muslim children there al hamdulilah) but that she didn’t like how they behaved and they were cruel to each other. I used to say to her I knew she wasn’t ready for middle school because the children become very cruel then and everything is about clothes, popularity and whether you have a boyfriend. There is also a lot of bullying and now, drugs. So I am glad she came to this decision. Georgia Cyber Academy, the school her brother is in is full and not taking students till next year so for now we will begin once again with all the books I own and loosely following the Well Trained Mind, inshAllah. I also ordered her k12 Math and Latin and we should get it on Tuesday. We are so excited and she said when UPS comes SHE will get the package and SHE will unpack it and store it in her room, NOT me! Getting mail and packages at our house is like Christmas. Lol, so to speak. AstagfurAllah :p   

http://abukhalilah.multiply.com/journal/item/197

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Downloadable teaching books Islamic Aqeedah, Science and History

I REALLY should have posted more often, i’m sorry. However, we don’t say “if” in Islam so i will just say I have been busy with the kids as learning is not just 8am -3pm but all the time.

 I have been crafting a lot lately. As well i’ve been enrolled since December in an online tajweed class though al Baseerah http://studyislaam.org/hifdh/   maa shaa Allah the teacher is good and class is comprehensive. May Allah increase me in ilm, ameen. I also started another blog not on wordpress but more simple, on blogger with more pictures. It includes all we do in nature, with animals and bugs in and out the house :) and our love of books. It’s a work in progress. I will be glad to update with a link to it later, inshAllah. I started it as a record for us but realized it would be great for my parents and family to see the children and keep up since we live so far away. and Allah is the best of Planners all praise is due to Him subhann wa ta’ala.

I am sure I have listed Harun Yahya’s site before it has MANY great videos on subjects such as History, Ideologies, almost every branch of Science, all from an Islamic perspective, as well as books, articles and a kids site but through a Muslim Photographers group on Flickr and someone on there posted a link. Harun Yahya does not just have great teaching tools, i myself love the quality of the PBS like videos attributing the miracle of the ant and bird to Allah, but as well very intellectual documentaries for adults.    http://harunyahya.net/V2/Lang/en/Pg/WorkDetail/Number/205

The actual site I got I had clicked on ‘English” from flickr but got a site all in what I presume to be Turkish however, a little navigation I chose English again. There are many books to choose from. This link inshAllah, is for the book title ‘Let’s learn our Islam” I would say its more for older kids as there is much reasoning, Science, some History as well as stories of the Prophets but it’s fine for adults to read to kids and probably a great dawah tool. One could also give the link or printed book to a public school or your child’s teacher. (Should homeschooling no longer be an option or perhaps to educate all your fellow Christian homeschoolers who, in the publications for teaching their kids encourage them to ‘pray’ for us :D   when many of them haven’t read the Quran only believing the media and what THEIR preachers say about Islam.

Overall, the book is a nice guide for teaching children about their Lord and the miracle of this earth, our bodies and mankind. What is better, is that the website allows choice available in MANY languages and the downloads as well. So, i knew about Haryn Yahya and his other sites and kids site but I never saw this one, i hope it will benefit :)

I am so grateful to Allah not just that I found this, but he granted me understanding but i have much further to go and we can never learn everything about this beautiful deen but one of the goals is perfection of Ibaadah, and for me to teach my children and uplift my own soul through Tarbiyyah. We’ve had ups and downs as a family, we all do, as well as we are told Imaan (faith) is like the phases of the moon.

 So, all praise is due to Allah He is truly merciful! With harship is ease. My children are growing and doing better, my daughter had gotten some attitude but that improved and my son, well he’s got a lot of energy and a bit of a temper. ( i don’t like labels I prefer to say traits) So that’s why I have said that I am grateful because, by the mercy of Allah, learning, changing my behavoir and applying the sunnah not just in my life but in the interactions with my children they have improved. I am sure making du’a didn’t hurt :) al hamduliah.

Changing my own attitude and thought process worked but also I saw some things about the Prophet’s salla lahu alahi wa salams interactions with children that were an inspiration and insight. One can easily study the seerah of the Prophet in books or online, however I had read half of Shadeed Muhammad’s book He came to Perfect Moral Character and it had several hadeeth I had never seen before about the sunnah with children and correcting people and some I had seen but the hadeeth were explained more so it made a real difference with my understanding and thinking.  http://rawdah.org/book-store-2/ *

The fact is, in any insightful quote or example of good I have found the same in the biography of Muhammad, salla lahu alahi wa salam and even better or more clear. I love the website and philisophy of www.raisingsmallsouls.com but in reality the video Animal School and their articles and classes are the sunnah. A lot of modern psychology and parenting turns out to be the sunnah. All good is in following the sunnah and this is in all aspects of life and of course in parenting, the upbringing and education of the children.

Finally,i made the resolution to keep daily notes so that what i find, learn and we experience can be kept track of so that at a bare minimum for me, it will help as a record and reference (because believe me, it’s beneficial because later I read something I forgot) and at the most can benefit someone, at least one :) inshaAllah. May I be consistant with this. May Allah make me successful in this life and the next, forgive me and grant me Jannah. May Allah guide all my brothers and sisters and anyone seeing truth.

P.S. In following the original scope of this blog, i want to post my corrections of the logic curricula by Douglas Wilson and James Nance, making it more Muslim friendly, if you know this book of beginning logic it’s filled with shirk and could use some names and ideas besides John and Michael and “Jesus either died on the cross or he did not” Well, actually now that i see that in writing thats not bad…as a test of an example of a statement. lol. Also, my plan is to also list the topics covered by grade of the Georgia curriculum using k12 and how I have moved the History around to be more sequential, though it’s not too out of order. I actually see many things they are doing now, copying the Classical method. We used k12 in Texas a few years ago.

 In general in relation to k12 I will list substitutions, skips, and what we suppliment from the library and by the favor of Allah, glory be to Him, allows us to see everyday. God willing. Soon i will comment of the positives and negatives of using k12 and compare it to The Well Trained Mind method and the newer teaching manuals and books by Susan Wise Bauer. I have a few of her newer books and reviewed Writing with Ease and can’t wait to order it!

* i am aware of some refutation however i read this a while back and was unable to finish and returned to it in the practice of my parenting. It was the HADEETH that inspired me that our brother, yes he still is, quoted.

I know we all have our favorite places online, some blogs, an amazing forum, a “pirate” site with the latest (and oldest) links for shows and movies or just a website on one of our favorite subjects, hobby or passion.

Well, we have also all seen how either a blog we get updates or feeds from or even one we occasionally check in on has the first page starting with the usual “I know i haven’t written in a long time” and of course, you see i’m unfortunately no different from that HOWEVER, as you see, i didn’t start out that way, ha!  I would like to apologise but again, that’s what’s expected and everyone else does and (while i am sorry) i will just say: refer to the first sentence. That’s what has caused my absence and what I have been doing all this time instead of posting. Just kidding. I really have been busy I’m just sure yall are tired of hearing that from the other blogs you’ve read and i feel bad for still saying it. I’m almost positive i said it a few posts ago which may have been a year ago, i hope not!

TO PROCEED on the subject of my post: I found an amazing book online that seriously fills a void in me i had since a child wondering about the past and those great Prophets from the Bible almost everyone knew about and WHERE they lived and came from. As a smart child, i knew all History we learned and were taught could not be 100% accurate with many holes, gaps and theories so these events, dates and people that interested me were still so mysterious because of so many unanswered questions i had.  Where did they live? How do we know? When did they live? Why did certain events happen? What kind of people were they?

Of course, in relation to mankind and its intentions and actions and much of ancient History most of my questions were answered when at age twenty, i read the Quran but that was later, almost the culmination of my quest of unanswered questions from childhood. Between age ten and twenty-five more questions I had in my mind about History were answered by my Dad, other adults, my elders, and reading about it myself than any school I attended. The questions I had about History and the past were resolved by living, learning  and talking to people and gave me more satisfaction than any high school or college class.
I have always wanted to read or learn about History in chronological order, as it happened.  To me, it just made sense.  Even as a child, I always wanted to learn about History from a  balanced, unbiased perspective. I doubted America, the domination of the world who sets the tone for the globe and spends years teaching its students our mere 200+ years of History when compared to global History is less than 5% on the timeline, would teach me History fairly.  When even in this “modern” time of freedom and civil and racial “equality” some states are trying to remove American slavery from the History textbooks? Even when I was eight I knew our textbooks were not fair and glorified our way of life and “freedom and democracy” as the only way of life and superior to all other cultures.
It also bothered me that even when delving into learning about other countries, religions and cultures I had no idea what was going on in other parts of the world at the same time. I had no idea what was going on in China when Columbus supposedly discovered America. Or what was going on in Turkey, Russia or even South America when the light bulb was invented. There was no cohesion, no connection, no real comprehension when i didn’t study History chronologically and look at what the people in all different parts of the globe were all doing at the same time period.
I have always wanted to learn History from the beginning, in order, and develop a thorough understanding. I did find someone who accomplished close to this and it’s not translated to English yet and i will come back to that later when i edit the post. Originally I wanted to make a quick post on this book as I have been putting it off, but you see how i got off in a tangent.

TO PROCEED: (boy it would’ve been easier to scan down to THIS one, lol) The book is called “Atlas of the Quran” recently published in English. It has no other counterpart in English that I know of, and I’ve read as well is in a class by itself. Here is a statement from the publishers about it: “  An Authentic Collection of the Qur’anic Information with Maps, Tables and Pictures. This Atlas is new in its subject, a subject that has not been touched before. It helps whoever recites the Quran or studies it to specify the locations mentioned by the Noble Verses, and to mark those places of ancient people mentioned in the Qur’an. This is besides locating areas where the incidents of the prophetic Seerah occurred”  Dar-us-Salam publications.  Ok, that’s a little drier than i remember it. I guess I was really excited when I found it. I was even happier when i did a search and found it in a few places online, available to read or download. Here is one place : http://www.kalamullah.com/atlas-of-the-quran.html  i think i also saw it on Wiziq as well as scribd.

AND last week i also found out all this time i have been saying wiziq when it is pronounced WIZ I.Q.  quite embarrassing when a sister pointed that out, especially when you actually look at the name icon it’s obvious. I almost blurted out my own “IQ” to prove i had all my lightbulbs on upstairs.  Who even SAYS that anymore? Oh, yeah just another reminder that i’m getting old and sounding more and more like my father everyday,,,”I remember when a McDonald’s hamburger was five cents…” lol

So, there you go, there’s the link. It is an amazing book, check it out. I hate spending money in fact, i always thought it was a virtue but discovered, no saving money and THINGS is actually closer to an obsession and part of my OCD. I didn’t learn about that either till a sister gently pointed out I look it up online and myLord, I see a picture of someone’s bookcase with OCD and the books were all symmetrical with the tallest on the sides down to the shortest in the middle and arranged by subject. I thought everyone did that it just looks better. I never considered OCD because im not a clean freak or germaphobic and not always clean because i’m thrifty…..i save things. Well, i realized i WOULD be into perfection and have an orderly, spotless house if i didn’t have KIDS and i was messy not spotless because i am a ….hoarder. uhg, i said it. I guess the positive thing about it, having OCD, i am an organized hoarder. I always called my dad a “packrat” and everyone did also wow, ding! After seeing that A&E show i realized, no he was a hoarder.

Growing up, we always had many books and magazines (don’t get me started on my dad’s mags). I have never thrown any book out and the only ones I no longer have were loaned out or lost. So i have over a hundred books al hamdulilah, organized and straight. Wait, lemme go check…
I forgot about the ones strewn about the house we’re currently reading or referencing.  I have been getting a lot of cheap(or free) bookmarks lately because i find myself and kids using many books at once and don’t wanna continue the spread eagle way of laying them down to mark the place. What does everyone else use? Sometimes I leave a pencil laying inside to mark my place because its handy usually i have it to lightly mark a word I want to look up or important point. Of course, i lose my place as soon as DH or DD needs a pencil and can’t find one. I yell, “Go look in my book laying on my bathroom counter!” lol

Soo  a bit embarrassing mentioning my ….interesting quirks but i don’t feel too bad or worried because I know im not crazy. You know Ellen? Ellen DeGeneres? I don’t agree with her on everything (of course) but she writes books exactly the way she talks. And, having read a couple of her books I see I write and seem to have the same thought process/tangent thinking she does. Perhaps she spends hours on her standup or dialogue for her show and days writing her books, i dunno. Gosh, now i was convinced if my thought process was like Ellen’s and SHES not crazy that i shouldnt worry if anyone thinks I AM. Boy, i just blew that. If she spends hours preparing her funny, witty, diagram like spealls then it’s not in the moment and i am NOT like her…who is normal, not crazy. lol. 

From what i just said I seriously need to go back to that beginning course in Logic book. It’s not that Logic thrills me, thou i feel it has a place in Classical Education and learning comprehensive, rational thought but i was, what i call, de-shirking the manual, making it safe and friendly for my kids:)     I need to go back and finish it.  The pencil is gone now so if i can only find my place…

I SHALL BE BACK …..

P.S. I forgot to say i was so impressed with the book and purely fascinated by its scope I bought it. Getting it in the mail for my kids and i was like getting a present, how awesome they love that not ‘real’ presents.

Anyway, I have been supplementing Atlas of the Quran and Ibn Kathir’s The Prophets with the state of Georgia’s k12 History course.  It substitutes and compliments it wonderfully and we are to Prophet Sulaiman now. The k12 History curriculum starts off with ’beginning’ man and the Fertile Crescent, Babylon, Sumeria and Egypt and tells the some of the stories of the Biblical prophets as well. So far, it is NEARLY chronological and where in conflict, i made adjustments. I am pleasantly surprised how well  The Atlas of the Quran works with Ibn Kathir’s the Prophets. I will write more later on the specifics of how I taught DS History, moved things around and what was supplemented or substituted, inshaAllah. He is really enjoying the online History and the time we as a family, learn the Prophets and people in Ancient History. Lately, we play a game who can recall and list the Prophets alahi salam in order and DS is actually winning over DD and I. Yes, i may be teaching it, but I grew up reading the Bible, some of the Quranic Prophets are not in the Bible. Allah subhanna wa ta’ala says in his book that He sent a Prophet to every nation. We don’t know about them all. Does anyone know about how many? Someone told me once it’s like one hundred thousand?
Of course they all came with the same message: Allah is One, and without partner. Tawheed. La ilaha il’Allah . And the final messenger, the seal of all Prophets, Muhammad, salla lahu alahi wa salam. There is no God worthy of worship except Allah and Muhammad is the messenger of Allah.

In chapter eighteen, verse one hundred ten of the Qur’aan:

“Say (O Muhammad ): I am only a man like you, it has been inspired to me that your Ilah (God) is One Ilah (God, –i.e. Allah). So whoever hopes for the meeting with his Lord, let him work righteousness and associate none as a partner in the worship of his Lord.”

The Messenger has believed in what was revealed to him from his Lord, and [so have] the believers. All of them have believed in Allah and His angels and His books and His messengers, [saying], “We make no distinction between any of His messengers.” And they say,
“We hear and we obey. [We seek] Your forgiveness, our Lord, and to You is the [final] destination.” (2: 285)

Say, ‘We have believed in Allah and in what was revealed to us and what was revealed to Abraham, Ishmael, Isaac, Jacob, and the Descendants, and in what was given to Moses and Jesus and to the prophets from their Lord. We make no distinction between any of them, and we are muslims [submitting] to Him.’ ” (3: 84)

 

This is just a quick update that a favorite writer of mine Lisa Russell, has moved her site. Apparently, twice :p

You will recall her from the article I so blatantly stole (er…borrowed?) about the dreaded home school, unschooling topic…drum roll please….”Socialized” To be more accurate, the post was titled, “EVERYONE MUST READ THIS” caps mine, and went on to HER title, “No thank you we don’t believe in Socialization” which to be honest, i got off the San Antonio homeschool website that i have located somewhere. One of the funniest things Lisa ever said was something like, “as if only a dot stood between me and organized…ugg im getting that wrong. Lisa, please correct me if you will…  :D    i’ve had three hours of sleep and carschooled all day so please oblige meee…lol

*that reminds me, GOSH I WISH I”D been able to attend the unschooling conference, ugg that burned me!* I wanted to have a henna booth for the parents and facepaint the kids! and meet cool people from all over the US like me…i meant ppl like me, not cool (embarrassed)

ANYWAY, she was here: http://mrshannigan.wordpress.com/   then she went here: http://www.lisarussell.org/blog and  http://lisarussell.org /   finally (though not promised :) and the road is paved and long,  excuse the pun} she arrived …yaayyy here : http://www.gypsymom.com/  Join her for her family’s new voyage unschooling, writing, learning all the time (our motto) having fun, being together and loving…in a small RV…driving cross country to the …unknown..whooooo. lol. Seriously. Go view it i swear you won’t regret it. She is funky, fun, insightful, disorganized (like me) and …has the most wonderful outlook, maa shaa Allah. I love her new post already about El Paso, Texas. Awesome. Really, i can’t think of another word besides that: awesome. Al hamdulilah. I have quoted her more times than I can count on my fb. (Shhh…it’s a secret)

If we all applied the Golden rule there would be no problems on this earth wa Allahu Alim. Similar is the Prophet Muhammad’s saying, “None of you is a believer until he wants for his brother what he wants for himself”  

The media and common (sorry) ignorant folk would have you believe Muslims are not tolerant that is NOT the case. I could go on and on but it’s midnight. Please a sis post daleel (evidence) for what i am saying I will inshAllah come back to this and edit the evidence.

Here it is again, to avoid confusion: www.gypsymom.com I listed the sites above not just my wacky humor ( i been called crazy, zany, hippy and gypsy in my life)and hyper…

but as well because there is still much benefit in her old sites. However make sure you visit her newest site first, it rocks!

First five sisters to check out her site get a free massage with aromatherapy with my signature Enlightened Touch products! Don’t worry if you live in SA the offer is still valid, i am traveling there soon inshAllah, massage table in tow!

http://www.freewebs.com/massageandmendime/

Check out http://www.care2.com/  Largest site about living natural, newest discoveries in health and fitness, creating change, signing petitions and for animal lovers! And awesome site with the best weekly newsletter I’ve ever seen!

Also www.healthymuslim.com

Well, i guess thats it, shew! Did i spell that right? night! (Yes, sometimes i think in rhyme)

Wanna see my poetry? It’s under my notes. Add me here: http://facebook.com/leslie.eisenman

And my fb business page is much more up to date with health and helpful links for the Muslimah or anyone, maa shaAllah really…it also will have recent pictures of the massage room in my home. For those of you who don’t know, I am a licensed massage therapist. I also have a group one health and life insurance license in the state of Texas i passed the test when I was 19 al hamdulilah. The youngest one in the history of West Telemarketing. Don’t even get me started on that company! Everyone in San Antonio knows that! http://www.facebook.com/#!/pages/Heaven-and-Earth-Bodywork/173365312449?sk=info I went to ACC in Austin, Texas where I completed Medical Assisting.  Two years later my dream was realized when I graduated St. Phillip’s college in San Antonio. I received my certificate in Massage Therapy and passed the state of Texas exam shortly thereafter. On the first try. With flying colors. Did i mention I passed on the first try? lol   I love shiatsu, aromatherapy and am experienced in many other modalities, check out my website the freewebs one describes services and my mission for women of the world!

G’night facebook! oops i meant ..err  wordpressers?

:D

Assalamou alaikom wa rahmatullah thanks so much for your kindness and visiting my site . JazakAllah khair.

*DOES  N*E*body know how to get wordpress to stop underlining homeschooling and unschooling? I like spelling it that way.

Quick post to benefit update/edit later inshAllah :)

This is a reminder to myself as well and the reminder benefits the believer. al hamdulilah.

A child is like radar1 , :

 he picks everything he hears and sees in front of him. If his mother is honest, chaste, truthful and brave, the child will be raised in a healthy and respectable environment. However, if the mother goes astray and has immoral and corrupt principles, the child will inherit from her those evil qualities. Even if a child is born on al-Fitrah (Islam), his parents should guide him on the straight Islamic path and teach him the true Faith; otherwise he will be led in the wrong direction if they neglect his education. The Prophet was right when he said: “No child is born except on AI-Fitrah (Islam) and then his parents make him Jewish, Christian or Magian.”2

1.Khayriyyah Sabir, from the book “Dawr al-Umm Fi Tarbiyyati at- Tifli al-Muslim”.

2.Sahih al-Bukhari on the authority of Abu Hurairah.

“You teach best what you most need to learn.”~ Richard David Bach

If you would thoroughly know anything, teach it to others.~ Tyrone Edwards

And both these sayings are in the athaar of this great deen, al Islaam. I will find the quotes by scholars inshAllah. Please feel free to provide daleel and comments, they and it are always welcome whether constructive criticism, correction or general. i don’t believe in censorship for myself or my blog just because you are not stroking my ego! lol

And to Allah alone belongs praise and He is sufficient for me.

Source for above excerpt:  Winning the heart of your husband (book saved to desktop)

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